NAARI ko ek se jyda shadi krna allow kyu nhi?

#1

me chama chahta hu, iss prashn ke liye, per mere mann me bhot baar khatkata he isilye puch rha hu.
kyuki jab purush 96000 shadi kr skta he toh, naari kyu nhi. kya naari ko bhog bhogne hetu puyna ki den he mana gya he.

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#2

Maine bhi iss vishay par kaafi baari socha hai. Har baar bade alag alag vichaar aur conclusion aate hai -

Agar 4th kaal ke purush vishesh brahmacharya se jeete thay toh phir unko itni saari striyo se vivah karne ki zarurat kyu padti thi? Maana ki har purush 96000 se shaadi nahi karta hoga par phir bhi normally har purush ki kam se kam 1 se zyaadi striya toh hoti hii hongi.

Tab phir yeh bhi lagta hai ki ho sakta hai uss kaal ki samajik vivastha kuch aisi hii ho. Wahan shaadi bhale hii ho jaaye par purush aur stri adhiktam brahmacharya se hii jeete honge aisa samjha jaa sakta hai.

Ek cheez humko aur lagti hai ki aisa bhi infer kiya jaa sakta hai ki tab ke kaal mai ki striyo ki kashay aadi kam thi toh unko koi takleef nahi hoti thi agar raja koi aur raani se bhi shaadi aadi kar le.

Dev paryay mai bhi har dev ke kam se kam 32 deviya toh hoti hii hai. Usse adhik bhi ho sakti hai par kam se kam 32 toh hai hii. Kintu Dev paryay toh waise bhi asaiyam ki paryay hai toh usme itni takleef nahi hai mujhe.

Mujhe aisa bhi lagta hai ki striyo mai purusho se zyaada namrata aur sahansheelta hoti hai shayad isliye unko ek nazariye se purusho se bhi zyaada sheelvaan aur uccha maana jaa sakta hai. Aisa bhi pratit hota hai ki maybe striyan uss 4th kaal mai ek hii purush mai santusht rehti hongi par purush 1 stri mai santusht nahi reh paate honge isiliye aur vivah bandhan aadi karte honge.

Haalaki bahu-striyon mai se ek stri hamesha pattraani hua karti thi. Aisi bhi parampara thi.

All in all iss question ka samadhaan mai nahi bata paunga kyunki woh samay alag tha aur tab ke niyam-riwaaz alag thay.

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#4

Read this answer. Even nature does not give equality.

https://www.quora.com/If-men-and-women-are-equal-how-did-the-society-become-patriarchal-in-the-first-place-almost-all-around-the-world/answers/105278502?ch=3&share=588346bd&srid=zhr6x

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